The following article, “Your Best Night’s Sleep” by Tina Marie Frawley, appears in Fibromyalgia AWARE magazine, Winter 2010, Vol. 21. Reprinted with permission from the National Fibromyalgia Association:www.fmaware.org © FM Aware All rights reserved. No material may be reproduced or used without written approval of and proper credit given to Fibromyalgia AWARE
Do you ever lie awake nights, wondering when restful sleep will sweep you away? Fibromyalgia pain can prevent you from falling asleep—yet deep sleep is vital for people with chronic health conditions. The following steps can keep you from counting sheep and put you into a great night’s sleep.
Avoid unhealthy substances. Caffeine, sugar, and tobacco stimulate the body and mind. Caffeine is a stimulant that prevents many people from falling asleep when it is consumed within hours of bedtime. Likewise, sugar stimulates the brain, keeping you awake.
While some people think alcohol will help them fall asleep, it actually does more harm than good. Alcohol consumption may initially “knock you out,” but the sleep will not be deep—and you are likely to wake up after the alcohol effect has worn off.
Prepare your bedroom. The bedroom should be a sanctuary where all you do is sleep. People who conduct multiple activities in the bedroom, such as watching television or using the computer, will have trouble separating work from sleep. Remove computers and TVs from the bedroom and use them in another room.
Taking proper care of your mattress, such as rotating and flipping it every season, is also important for keeping the bedroom prepared for optimum sleep.
Regulate temperatures. Scientific studies have found temperature plays a major role in sleeping. Cooler temperatures in the bedroom will foster good sleep. It is best to keep the room between 60 and 68 degrees Fahrenheit. The body’s core temperature should be lowered, too. (Be careful when using large body pillows as they may trap heat inside the body’s core, raising your temperature.)
No pets allowed. No matter how much you love your pet, you may have to banish it from the bedroom so its whimpering, jerking limbs, snoring, or other sleeping activities will not disturb your night’s sleep.
Use aromatherapy. Scents such as lavender and vanilla are calming to the mind. Using them can help the body relax (if you don’t have multiple chemical sensitivities, which may be exacerbated by the use of essential oils). Since leaving aromatherapy candles burning while sleeping is dangerous, add a few drops of essential oils to a room humidifier, spray the oils on your pillow, or leave the bottle open on your nightstand. Probably the most effective way to use aromatherapy is to rub small amounts under your nose and around the temples; then run your fingers across your scalp and around your neck in a relaxing self-massage.
Establish a routine. Start by deciding how much sleep you need. Set a time to fall asleep and a time to wake up. Stick to this schedule, even on weekends and holidays, so your body becomes accustomed to sleeping during those hours.
Turn down loud music and turn off televisions and computers about an hour before bed. You may wish to take a warm bath or shower also. (After you emerge from the water, your body temperature will lower, also promoting sleep.) Slip into comfortable, non-restrictive clothing before reading or doing something relaxing such as knitting or hand-sewing. Use aromatherapy and try to keep from thinking about work, in-laws, or the damage your dog did to your garden. This time is about relaxation.
The only other thing left to do is drift off to sleep.
Keep your feet warm. If your feet are cold, you might find it harder to fall asleep. Use socks or en a hot water bottle to ensure your feet are not the reason for your insomnia. A folded blanket at the end of the bed may help too.
Sleep on your right side. For people who traditionally sleep on their left side or back, this one might be a hard adjustment, but the rewards are manifold. Sleeping on your right side allows the blood being pumped from your heart to flow effortlessly throughout your body, while lying on your left side forces your heart to work harder because of the weight of the right lung placed upon it.
Similarly, sleeping on the right places less pressure on the digestive tract.
Sleep in complete darkness. Window treatments should be heavy and block out all light. Light and dark signal the brain when it is time to sleep and awaken. Allowing light into the bedroom during times you should be sleeping causes your brain think it is time to be awake.
Not all window treatments can block out everything, but wearing an eye mask can prevent almost 100 percent of light from interfering with your sleep.
Relax from toe to head. As you are ready to fall asleep, consciously relax your body starting with your toes and working your way up to your head. Include everything from knees to jaw and even eyes. You may be amazed at how much tension you are holding without being conscious of it.
Exercise regularly. This does not require mean running the Boston Marathon! Gentle exercises can be beneficial. Even allowing the body to stretch for a few moments in the morning and at night will get your blood moving and make your body feel better. Taking a gentle yoga class just once a week, for example, will give you ideas of ways to stretch at home and relax before bed. Set small goals for yourself and pay attention to how exercise makes you feel as you are doing it.
A great night’s sleep is not out of reach for people with FM. Following these simple steps will allow you to step into a restful night and wake up feeling relaxed and rested.
Sweet dreams!